What is bdsm?

WHAT IS BDSM?

what is bdsm, live femdom camsWhat is BDSM? Well that is a question as old as the hills. Ask a vanilla person what they think bdsm is and they will more than likely come back with “tying a guy to a cross and whipping his penis while calling him a naughty boy”. And while this is in part true, the reality is much more complex.

BDSM stands for bondage, domination, sadism machosistic and is essentially the umbrella of which the giving and receiving and pain comes under. Between consenting parties, it can be broken down in to two different categories. As an erotic experience to spice up a love life or as an act between a dominant and a submissive where one dominates and controls the other. Either the man dominates the woman or vice versa.

 

EROTIC BDSM

For the erotic side of bdsm, it will usually be between a couple who indulge in some light bondage and teasing. There will usually not be any pain inflicted, if any, and it is a mutually enjoyable experience by both parties. It can be something simple like one tying the other to the bed with furry handcuffs, belts or rope and then dripping and rubbing ice cubes all over the tied parties naked body. Fondling and stroking them to heighten the pleasure. It can also take the form of a little light spanking or flagellation. Sometimes it can take the shape of using other corporal punishment and degrading language to further the session. But as it is a sexual aphrodysiac between two loving partners, it is extremelly mild and the concept of inflicting pain for pleasure is a powerful tool that couples can use and if both adults are “in to it” then it will heighten the sexual pleasure to almost limitless levels and produce a highly satisfying result for both parties.

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FEMDOM BDSM

The other side of the coin is the art of bdsm by a full dominant and a full submissive. Rather than the erotic bdsm side where it is more than likely the top and bottom will switch from being in control to not, with this there is only one top and one bottom and it stays like that. In almost all cases (but not all) it will be a female dominant and a male sub. For submissive males, the act of submitting and being controlled by a woman is something that has been with them throughout their whole life. With women seen as the “fairer” sex, it is incredibly erotic to have a female tower over them and dominate them by bossing them about, calling them names and tying them up and abusing them.

In these cases, the pain is usually stepped up a gear (although this varies from session to session and although submissive, the bottom will usually dictate how strong the pain infliction will be) andhumiliatrixs while a vanilla person might not understand, for a submissive, recieving this hurt turns them on and is an essential part of their sex life.

There are many different areas of S & M and it is impossible to list them all. It varies from cock and ball torture where the males penis is abused to boot licking, ass worship or heel worship. It might be forced cross dressing or if the male has a tiny cock then some guys like to be humiliated and insulted for it. The most common insult submissive men like to hear is a dominant woman ridiculing their sexual prowess and telling them they are incapable of satisfying a woman.

There are two ways men can be dominated by females. The first is by visiting a live dominatrix in a “dungeon” where they can be dominated in a real time session. the other, more common, way is via online female domination webcam sites on the internet. On these sites you can find hundreds of dominant females on cam who can cover almost every aspect of bdsm and create a session of femdom that can satisfy guys desires and fantasies.